I'm not sure why I believe this is important, but..it seems so to me.

As I've said before, I found out about my wife's A through an email she had printed out to give to the OM. When I confronted her, I demanded, and got, the password for the email account that the two of them used. I went in and was able to read several emails, detailing their affair. My wife had plenty of time to delete them prior to me logging on to read them. But she didn't.

Later that afternoon, the OM logged on the to the email. Once he found out that I knew about the A..he deleted EVERYTHING. (I told his wife about the email account. I'ts obvious he didn't want her to read the emails.)

Again, I'm not sure why this strikes me as important. But..it strikes me as reassuring that she would realize that the jig was up and the time for honesty had come....and it shows a lot more of the cahracter of the OM, whose first instinct, apparently, was to cover his butt.