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Confused don't know what to do
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I would love to tell my story but it is very long and confusing. I wouldn't even know where to start. We are not married but been together for almost 10 years, we have a 5 year old son together. I suspect that he is having or had an affair in the last 6 months. He deny's it, even though I have seen evidence. He moved out 2 months ago, he moved it with his parents. I stayed home with my 2 sons and his daughter from his first marriage. His mom has been very supportive. It's been really hard for me, I am a very emotional person. I know that you can't give me any advise with out knowing my story. Please tell me where to start.
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WELCOME!! I'm in a similar situation, although my WS "only" had a one-night-stand. But we're not maried, we have 2 kids together and we are custodial to his 2 kids from his 1st marriage.

Please go through this site and read up on Plan A. Also, go to the General Questuons category and read through that also.

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Welcome to the forum chere.

Yes, it's quite hard to give advice without details....but start at the Homesite and read all the articles and basic concepts. It will give you the vocabulary to use when talking about these things.

If you suspect, but don't know for certain....start thinking about ways you can find out for sure. Cell phone bills, PI, etc. You must have clear evidence to confront him.

Being unmarried puts you at a legal disadvantage....that worries me a bit for you. You may need legal advice to sort through that issue....if you can afford it.

Blessings.....tell your story slowly, but get the details in when you can.

hugs and welcome!
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Thanks for the friendly welcome, after reading all the post, I know that I'm not alone, I thought I was going crazy. You have all helped me get by this week. I seem to have found some strength that I use to have plenty of. I will post my story, as soon as I can. Thanks Again.

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