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I have discovered that my husband of 2 years was having an affair. The other woman is someone he works with. I have met this person (her, her husband and 2 kids have been to my home). The affair lasted about 3 months, and only ended because I found out. That is the general story....The "unforgivable" part.. First, the affair started mid June of 04 and ended on Sept. 11, 04. I gave birth to our first child during this time. The other woman visited us in the hospital, and came to my house after we were home. My husband took pictures of her holding my baby!!!!!! My husband says he did not feel that I was meeting his emotional and physical needs. He felt this person was easy to talk to, and it led to an attraction that led to the physical affair. I am so disgusted. Is there anyone who has experienced this type of betrayal?
Any advise is appreciated.
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limi,
Yes, there are unfortunately many people here who have been in similar situations. There are quite a few that are actively posting on the GQII board that have had to deal with pregnancy and infidelity simultaneously. (Loy and Kloe come to mind...but there are lots more) I think you'll get much more help on that board and I'll look for you there.
Hugs! Welcome to MB...sorry you're here...but we are happy to have you.
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Your reactions are completely normal, but even so, you can recover and have a great marriage after this. It won't be easy, but it is possible.
Click on the link in my signature line for a an introduction to some of the best resources for your journey.
Oh, yeah...please tell the OW's husband if you haven't already. You would want to know if you were in his shoes, wouldn't you?
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