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I have been dropping hints about the A and he still hasn't even asked me point blank. It is almost he doesn't care whether or not I did it. Wouldn't you be livid or at least question why your wife is doing someone's laundry and why that person comes in an unlocked door to walk the dog while everyone is sleeping and now suddenly no one is talking to him. I even told him you know I have made some big changes in our life because I want to be committed to our relationship. Big blank stare from him.
Sometimes I am ready to burst out saying I had sex with so and so. HELLO our marriage sucks please let's do something about it. Instead I know he would just withdraw from me and ride his bikes for days on end without telling me where he is going-passive aggressive. He is never a direct man.
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LM,
Tell him. Dont drop hints, dont beat around the bush. TELL HIM!!!!!! If you have both become distant he may be blind to what you are trying to tell him. He may also be trying to tell himself " she hasnt said it so its not true " You need to tell him, but I would have professional help in place when you do.
Maybe set up an appointment with an MC or pastor if your active in a church and do it there.
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I've yet to encounter a man or woman who is a mind reader, have you?
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