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#454221 11/26/04 02:56 PM
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I suspect my H is having an affair. I just sat down and jotted down 27 signs he is showing on a piece of paper, that's just off the top of my head. He said he loves me but he's not in love with me and he needed some time alone to sort out his feelings to decide if he should stay in M or leave. He left lastnight,which is when I found this site.I asked him if there was someone else and he said no,he has left before,several times to sort his feelings,and always returned home,and as far as I know, he has never been unfaithful.What should I do now?

#454222 11/26/04 04:03 PM
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Welcome - the love you but not in love with you is a classic sign. Also leaving to get space, or figure themselves out usually means they need space to continue the affair.

Read all about Plan A, and start there. You can read it on the link in my signature line.


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