For quite a while now I have had a strange feeling that my wife was "involved" in some way out side of our marriage. After she left me and started down the divorce path I decided to do some snooping. I have found some pretty awfull things tucked away in her purse and other "private" places. I have never done the snooping thing before (despite knowing I am good at it) because I wanted to trust her. I have found out that at least two other men at her work have gotten her attention. One is a 35+ high school drop out working as a cook at a grocery store. He has just been divorced and has 2 children. The other man is 46+ has 3 children and is happily married. He works for the same chain of stores as a reciever in the back. The first man I found a letter from refering to "having a great time last night". The second man I found a letter by her for her about all of the things she wanted to do with him (Too graphic for here!). This letter was dated just days before our anniversary and days before I blew a whole lot of money on 2 platinum and diamond rings. I am hurt deeply by this and wish she had come clean a long time ago about this before it was too late. I no longer have any interest in saving this marriage. At this point I only want to save my own a**. I know that I had a part in driving her to this but why did she never tell me that something wrong? She simply let herself go along with her "crushes" and never had a second thought. THESE OTHER GUYS CAN HAVE HER! I NO LONGER WANT HER AT ALL! After being told I was a liar why would I want to go back? She was the liar! I gave her so many chances to come clean about this stuff Why didn't she take one of them? Oh well she is some other poor sucker's problem now.....
She couldn't fool me forever. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

Oh and by the way both of these guys make next to no money. I am 26 and pull down 40K+ a year. What is she thinking? I got her the house! I got her the life we had until she left! now she wants alamoney!?!?!??

Hello,

What a sad story. It is really sad that you paid for the rings right before you found out. If she had any class she would not have accepted the rings. I would suggest that you contact the happily married OM's wife and clue her in since she has a right to know and it would make your wife attempt at adultry more difficult. Good luck to you.

It was in may. The letter was dated may 13 our day is the 25th. I will be letting everybody know about this when it is over but for now I cannot really expose myself yet. Rest assured they WILL know about her. Her life is about to get very difficult. I am not one with whom to f**k!