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I'm going threw some tuff times. It all started with Depression. My heart and soul went out trying to help and then little did I know you really can't do anything but just be there for them. Then on top of all that I found out that he was having affair. The affair had ended about a year before I had found out, but they where still talking. I confronted him. We decided to move forward to work things out, then a few weeks later he moved out. He said he had to find himself again. It has been almost a month we are talking going forward with our marriage but he has not came home yet. There for I have resentment. I need some help. PLEASE <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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My, are you sure there has been no contact? It is possible your H is going through withdrawl. Are you in MC? Sorry for your situation.
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Yes we are going to MC. I asked him and he said know. I believe him at this point. Beccause he has told me lots of thinks he did not need to. We are talking about this, and his depression. The affair is over for some time. He has just been filling guilty about it on top of his depression. we have the same goals. and trying to get there.
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My, is your H on AD's? Is he in IC? What kind of help is he getting for his depression?
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He has been on meds for about 3 months now, and he is seeing a specialist one on one. He wants to come home, but yet he spend alot of energy staying away. Is it me? Is he just want to end our marriage and can't tell me? He is only hurting me by not telling me if this is what he wants he must let me go. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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