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Do marriages that are rocked by and Affair really work out and get stronger? Or does the cheated on just learn to cope. Can the cheated on really trust the cheater?

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Hi,

Your marriage can become stronger than it has ever been. I will not kid you, it is a lot of work and it will require participation by both of you.

You need to discover what problems your marriage faced that made it vulnerable to an affair.

There are no excuses for an affair, but there are reasons. (Stolen from Steve Harley)

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Can it work out ? Yes, it can but as
Comfortably Numb said it takes work and lots of it. I am at 6 years post d-day from H's last A and I can honestly say our marriage is better than ever.


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