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#455692 01/07/05 05:54 PM
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I am new here but not new in this situation.
My husband went away to work and began an affair while he was gone. He supposedly ended the affair and came home five days ago. he just left again.
He is still emotionally addicted to the ow and she called constantly. He has Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and is an addictive personality. I don't know what is going to happen now but it hurts so very much.

#455693 01/07/05 06:39 PM
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Sreno,

Sorry to here of your situation. It is very painful, as I know. My WH is currently involved in his 3rd affair. He doesn't know I am aware of what is going on right now. I'm getting ready to start D proceeding when I get proof of his A. He told me he stopped before but was still contacting OW. I was foolish and trusting before, but not anymore.

There is excellent information at this site so I encourage you to read it. Your marriage is not necessarily over just because of your WS's A, but you must both be willing to work on recovery together. My WH was never interested working so there was never any progress.

I'm saying a prayer for you.


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