Hi...My name is Katrina I'm 22 married to my highschool sweetheart for almost 3 years together for 7 we have 2 kids Adrienne 5 and Tito almost 1 on Jan 1,2005 was the worst day of my life my husband had to tell me he was having an affair because the women flip out on him because he wouldnt leave me to be with her so she went to the cops accusing him of keying her car when he was home sleeping at the time she said it happened so I had to call the detective and confim his alabi...I guess it had been going on anywhere from 6 to 3 months not sure but one day would have been to much so it doesnt really matter but I did find a note ripped up in his pocket in late July from them writing back and fourth at work I taped it together read it and was pissed but that passed and we moved on there where other signs that all make sence now but at the time I had no proff in which to confront him with..he would go to a buddies 4 times a week at the same time everynight for a few hours I thought it was strange but once again no proof or when he was gone I would call and it would be silent in the back ground or he wouldnt answer at all and when he did he would be on his way home...so for about 3 months he was going to her house 4 nights a week...he syas they only slept together once and that was 4 weeks ago wether thats true or not I don't care once is enough..Before this him and I had only been with each other sexually so in the back of my mind I always knew this was going to happen..I was so proud of that special bond we had but I guess he wasnt..I just don't know if im coming or going anymore I'm so crushed and can't believe the man that was my everything and was suppose to love me more then anything could hurt me so bad..I don't know what I'm looking for by telling my story but any advice or thoughts you can give me would be great I don't have anyone to really turn to thats been through this so I thought you guys could help..thank you.

Katrina!! OMG!! I haven't talked to you in so long! Sounds like we're both going through a rough spot. Email me and we'll chat!
Love ya girl!!
Amelia (loopy drop-out)

Wow Amelia never thought I would find someone here that I actually know! I don't know ur e-mail so you e-mail me at Katrina21@gmail.com or message me at AIM:BoriquaLuv021 Yahoo:Sweetskittles18

I would love to chat with you!

I'm sorry that you found yourself hear like so many others. Rest assure that you wil get the support and advise that you are looking for. I would suggest that you take some time to just think about everything that has happened. I would reccommend not making any rash or hasty decisions. Whatever decision you'll make in the comming weeks or months may very well have life long affects. Most importantly though I suggest that you preay to GOd that he give you the strength to endure this hard time in your life.

Thank you Cali...I'm trying