Hi,
Im new here...here is my problem...my Husband has not cheated but what he does is just the same. when we go out there is this one girl who is known to get drunk and start to feel on the men. the first time this happend my husband just sat and let her feel all over him..i was livid..the next time he knew what to expect but he again allowed her to feel on him and he did the same...here we are again we had a party at our house and he was the one who danced with her and just had his hands all over her...i was disgusted..he said he dont remember because he was drunk but i got it all on tape. as i said before this is now the thrid time. every other time i forgave him. he said it wont happen again. but this is the third time so i dont beleive him. i dont blame the girl i blame him because he knows how she is and we have been through this before. what do i do. i get phycially sick when i think of how disrespectful and embarrassed i was in front of our friends..he even left me danceing by myself to go over and dance with this women and was just feeling all over her body...what do i do? pleas help me.
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Trying to get a better understanding here:

Why are you still socializing with this woman? Why don't you step in and make a scene when she starts this?(sorry, I tend to be dramatic)

If he allows it to happen, it is the same as condoling it. Was he drunk too? Sounds like the partying needs to chill before it goes to far.

Just my two cents...