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I have been married for almost 7 years. I was married at 19 and I have a six year old son. I have been abused, and cheated on through this time, however My husband and I was apart for about a year, and I got involved with someone from my past, and he was just the man I was looking for, so I thought but I found out he had drug problems that I could not deal with I tried to help me, but he tried but some how could not stop. My husband and I are back togather but I am not happy because I am in love with some one else, and I don't trust my husband. What should I do?
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Did you and your husband divorce? Are both of you working on the marriage? Seeing MC or IC? If you could please share a little more details.
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No, We did not get a Divorce and I guess we are trying to work it out, I often write the other Man, but I always tell him that it is over. Yes my husband was a rotten husband for years, and we got married young. I think we only got married because I was pregnant.I love him but I am not in love with him. I am in love with some one else.
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I'm a little unsure as to why you looking for help here. If you are looking for help to rebuild your marriage, then your in the right place. I can't see how communicating with the OM would help your situation at all.
If you want to end your marriage that's your decision, but use someone else as the reason doesn't seem all that healthy.
Please take the time to read everything that is on the fist page of this site, it may help you alot. Also try and introduce your husband but don't push. If he's interesed in your marriage he'll follow.
As to your question, I can only speak for myself...but...I don't think anyone here would tell you to wether you should leave your husband for another person or not. Just my humble opinion.
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Well, that is not my question or my problem I am not asking the question on rather I should leave my husband for another man. I dont think I want a divorce, but what I am saying is that I am confused. I wonder if I am ever going to feel the same way for my husband again. I sort of feel like I am trapped.
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SAB's right. You're as free as the day you were born.
Working on your marriage is a choice, just like not working on it and continuing with the path you've set out for yourself.
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