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This happened 1 1/2 years ago. My husband had to travel to 1 city for work and I had to travel to another city also for work. My husband was terribly upset with me. One night while he was there he drank too much, went to an adult bar and then went to visit an old female friend at her house late at night. To explain to me why I couldn't reach him by cell that night he told me that he was exhausted and just fell asleep that was until I found out differently. Now he is in an AA program but for some reason he never wants to be intimate with me anymore. We are both in our 40's, on our second marriages with our children from each being grown. Any advice? It seems like that night changed our sex life forever. We went to a marriage counselor for a few sessions. My husband says that him and his friend just talked that night but it never turned sexual. When I found out about this I did call her on the phone and confronted her she said that I had a problem and hung up on me. I'm not sure if they have seen each other since. Any advice?
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Joined: Mar 2002
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It's an affair. How is the Policy of Radical Honesty in your marriage? Can you say for 110% certain that contact between them doesn't continue?
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Great one I heard somewhere on one of these sights is....
If they would act/speak differently toward the other person if there spouse were there, then something is wrong about what they are doing.
I would agree it's an EA for sure.
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