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My husband has had a problem with pornography and internet pornography. He told me he would not do it again. I recently found his email password and when i opened his email he had signed up for a personal ad on a sex site. He wrote in his own words that he was seeking a one on one relationship for sex for one night or a weekend. when i confronted him he told me that he never followed through and never went to the site again. I am so confused and hurt. SHould i forgive him again? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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Confusedsister.
No. Trust isn't possible at this point. You need to ask for his commitment then verify it.
My H also spent alot of time on email porn. I tried to be understanding about it. He insisted he was just looking at the pictures. But like you I snooped and found emails based on "looking for someone" kind of responses.
Not acceptable.
Is this the only red flag you're dealing with?
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Confused,
I was also having internet porn issues. I still snoop occasionally to make sure that he's kept to our agreement. How have things been going with you?
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