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#456387 02/01/05 01:18 AM
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After 10 years, and 2 beautful children, I confirm my husband is gay. He spends hours on the internet viewing gay porn and I know that he has a secret email account too. I initially caught him 6 years ago, and then again 2 years later. Each time we worked on our marriage, only to let things slide again after a few months. We have never had a healthy sex life, due to my lack of libido, but I don't visit lesbian porn! I can't forgive him again, porn disgusts me, especially gay porn. I can't believe that he can throw this marriage away like this. I am at my <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> wits end!!

#456388 02/01/05 01:25 AM
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You've been through this before but are you ok now? Have you anyone there to talk to and cry on there shoulder? That is important! I'm not really sure how I can help but to listen. What ever you do don't get to feeling it's your fault. He has some real problem to work out. How are the kids? Do they know? I hope for your health he isn't acting outside the marriage. I'll have you and your family in my prayer tonight.

#456389 02/01/05 01:31 AM
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Thanks for your reply. My kids are 8 yrs old twin boys, I can't imagine how I can tell them. No, I don't have anyone to confide in. 'Our" friends would never believe me! I have made an appt with a counselor this week though.

#456390 02/01/05 01:34 AM
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Sorry I can't stay on now. I'll check back later. Go to the General Questions II page. There is someone on there all the time. Sorry your here with us.


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