posted February 07, 2005 03:46 PM
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Well, I'm back. My H us is moving into an apt in 3 days and I'm beside myself. The EA is still happening and he claims he needs to get away from me to sort through his feelings (mostly anger). It is a short term lease with rented furniture and sounds as though he thinks he will come back. I personally see this as an opportunity for him to raise the EA to a PA. My question is this. He did disclose where he is moving and even gave the address. He is going to have his little escape and will be able to have his secret life over there. How do I get the same respect and keep him from randomly showing up and coming here when I'm not home? He has keys and alarm codes and I don't want him to get homesick and have the ability to just stop home and visit the dog or anything. Help?

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