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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> I see no hope for a complete cutoff with OM, there might actually be more than 1 OM, if they are directly engaged with work activites daily. Actually, I know there are 2 OM just dont know of PA or EA. I am very confused and feel this is spinning out of control way too fast.
I am looking for ideas that I cant come up with right now. Please offer any suggestions.
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First of all you need to calm down. I made the mistake of confronting too early because I was so emotional - go figure <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Do you have hard evidence (emails, cell phone bills, etc..)? If not, then get them and formulate a confrontation plan - a calm confrontation. Are these EAs or PAs? If it is a PA - get tested for STDs because your spouse will lie and say that they used protection (they all do). If either OM is married then you need to call their spouse and let them no. Again, I didn't do this soon enough and I lost credibility. Although if the spouse of OW ever called me I would tell him everything I know. They are probably wondering what is going on with their spouse as well. Good luck and keep reading here.
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My problem is I confronted right away, I have e-mails and all the stuff to back it up. I made the huge mistake of confronting after I find every little piece of evidence, conversation is like beating a dead horse. I know of EA, have not confirmed PA, my W will not confirm. However, I have some evidence that suggests otherwise. Neither of the OM is married, one is D and the other single. Thanks again
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