My husband and I ahve been married for 8 years we have 4 children. My husband has been chatting to women on the internet for 3 years now, sometimes he talks to them on the phone or he will text message them and sometimes he even goes as far as meeting these women. I have asked my husband many times to stop this sort of chatting with these ladies but he see's no harm in what he is doing as far as he is concerned they are just friends and having a friendly chat, when we all know some of his chats get sexual. I fell pray to a one night stand 12 months ago and that has changed our relationsip alot. I have been sort of forgiven but it is never forgotten and is always brought up in our conversation or fights about him stoping his chats with his lady friends. I have begged him to stop and see what this is doing to us but he feels he is doing no wrong, I am getting very desperate as what to do as i cant live like this for much longer. Someone please help me.

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Your husband needs to stop having contact with these other women, and he also needs to work through your infidelity. Time for some honesty and working together. It does no good to just sweep it under the carpet.