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Can this marriage survive?
#457382 03/14/05 06:21 PM
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My husband recently admitted to having an affair. He has promised me that the affair is over and has committed to working on our marriage problems. The problem is that I know he is still communicating with her and still sees her occasionally. Of course he denies this. Can we really hope to save our marriage if this continues?
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What you are describing is very common and, yes, there is hope for your marriage. Read all you can on this site about infidelity, Plan A and Plan B and prepare for a roller coaster ride.

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If he truly wants to work on your marriage, why is he still seeing her? The point is, he is not being truthful to you, her, or himself. If he wants to work things out with you, you must make it absolutely clear that he must end all contact with her. If he cannot do that, let him know that he can't stay with you. You must be strong. Do not let him make you weak and negotiate any type of communication with her. As long as you show him that you love him, but you love yourself more, then he will get the point. Be firm and do not budge on that. As long as he is still talking with her, your marriage will not move on.

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