OctoberGirl...thanks for your reply...
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- <font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">When you say you are back home,where is that? GA?</font></li>
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Yes, I am back in Georgia with family at the moment. And unfortunately my MIL is 2 1/2 hours away...
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- <font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Do you own or rent the townhouse?</font></li>
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> We rent the townhouse...I'm on the lease as well.
I am devastated...not only did I find out about the OW...this was on the heels of my husband pleading with me to come up to VA with him I truely thought he wanted us to be a family....on the heel of a across country move...we moved from CA...and then he basically kicked my daughter and I out. -To be with this other woman....and the majority of this occured in just two months.
I do not feel that I can go back....
A week ago Monday his mother called me on her lunch break seemingly sympathetic and in "disbelief" too...she told me that she heard many of the conversations that my husband had with me and couldn't believe how he could change his mind....it didn't make sense. Anyway, at the time it was a nice surprise. She told me that she was going to call and talk to him that night...to see if she could get through to him.
When she did call it was more of a "Watch your a** phone call"...I heard his end of it...he keep getting more and more pissed as the call went on...and she gave him the number to a lawyer.
That's when he got off the phone and told me to get the "f" out...I was afraid. He had been mean, cold and distant...just really rude....like he didn't want anything to do with me and I couldn't get out fast enough so things were bad enough already. -Before his mother's phone call.
After all that, I thought that I was in a Twight Light Zone...literally. I could not believe the conversation that I had with his mother earlier that day...and what she told him when she called. He said that I was calling and manipulating his family?!?.(I do not manipulate...not in my character) ...and HE was telling her "SEE what I have to put up with?" I felt like I was going crazy. I told him some of the things that she had talk with me about (in the earlier call) and he called her back and she completely denied it??!?
I was shaking for 45 minutes after all of this...I just couldn't believe it and I was freaked out by all it.
I have never been treated so badly in all my life. My heart is broken...I was trying to make my marriage work and put everything behind us by going up to Virginia. I never thought that this would ever be the outcome.
I love him but between his emotional unavailablity, women, porn, mother interfering, and the way he has treated me what would I be fighting for?? More pain?
All of it is SO incomprehensible...