Got back from my mothers and SIL's tonite. HAd some great visits with them and some other friends. Also had some interesting times.<P>On Sun. nite, I left the kids with my m whil I went to visit a friend of mine. When I got up the next morning my m said she had some trouble with my d. Seems d wanted to call her mother and my m said no. D said she could call anytime she wanted and my m told her that her mother had left and didn't want the responsibility for them. OUCH!!!! Not what I wanted my mother to do.<P>So later that day my ew called and wanetd to talk to me( I had run to the store and was out) so I called her back.<P>She asked me what I had told om's w about her? Apparently om's w is calling them asking for her husband( and this upsets my ew) and also wrote her a letter telling her that she would burn in hello ,and called her a whore and was ugly. She asked me if I asid she was ugly. I told her no and that his w told me that he had told her about my ew's hair condition months ago. EW said then om must have told his w that she(ew)is ugly. She asked me if om's w was attractive since I had lunch with her. I told her I hadn't. I told her everything om's w told me and she disagreed taking om's side.<P>I told her that I thought all 3 of them were a bunch of liars and I couldn't believe any of them.<P>EW said she couldn't live like this, so I though maybe reality is setting in. However, when we went past her aprtment tonite we saw her car was there, but she was at work. Om must have taken her in because we got 5" of snow.<P>Also Tonite I called SIL to let them know we made it home safely. We then started talking about her sister, my ew. She echoed my thoughts about my ew, that she will eventually leave the area, really doesn't want responsibility of the kids, etc.<P><BR>MAybe I'm not crazy afterall.<BR><P>------------------<BR>"You can't always get what you want! But if you try real hard,you might just find, you get what you need!"<BR>Mick Jagger<P>

RWD,<P>Do you really think the Om told his wife that your ew is ugly??? What kind of boyfriend is THAT???? <P>Your SIL, is that ew's sister? Wow, even her own sister is saying she doesn't want he responsibility of her own kids??? This one is really hard for me to understand at all. <BR>Sure, everyone would like a break or some help, but for a maother to move away...again, I can't relate at all.<P>Glad you enjoyed yourself for a change <P>Desiree<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>

Desiree,<P>I don't think om told his w that, thats just something she threw in. I Think my ew concious is bother in her. She said om's w keeps calling asking for her husband, I guess she forgets they are, like us still married. I did this to om in the summer,asking for my wife. It didn't seem to phase him.<P>My SIL's comments kind of shocked me. She said she sensed for along time that her sister wasn't crazy about being a parent. She also agreed with me in my thinking that my ew will eventually move away, especially if om dumpes her again. I just see her getting tired of just working and not having any friends. <P>I also noticed that she took 1 Christmas card from a friend of hers that is singel and lives out west somewhere. So it wouldn't suprise me for her to run out there to "find " herself.<BR><P>------------------<BR>"You can't always get what you want! But if you try real hard,you might just find, you get what you need!"<BR>Mick Jagger<P>