Hello, <BR> Can someone tell me what plan A & Plan B are, I have somewhat of an idea, but it's not working for me. Is plan A about me changing the way I behave, iF sO i AM IN BIG TROUBLE, I am still holding alot of anger over what my H did, and i get more angrier each day because he isn't spending enough time With me to work on the marriage. I am so fustrated. He says that the affection I require is just a by product of love not love, but he says he doesn't feel loved because i don't appreciate him working all the time.I am trying so hard to meet his needs but it's nearly impossible when he is gone so much, which by the way is the biggest reason for his one night stands. His job always took him away from the home, and when he needed sex he went out and got it.it wasn't my fault i was always there for him in everyway.Now he tells me i have to accept his job, no matter what, which is extreamly hard for me.I need some help here any advise from anyone?

You can find out about Plan A and B on this website. Definitely find a copy of Surviving an Affair and read! It will be clear to you!<BR>

You can find the appropriate bookmarks in NSR's general greeting in "Just Found Out".<P>I have bookmarked it for you <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000002.html" TARGET=_blank> NSR's General Greeting </A>.<P>Just click on it. You will find alot of useful information there.<P>God Bless,<P>JL

Just an update...<P>The link to the greeting is now <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000553.html" TARGET=_blank>here</A>.<P>Also check out my posts...<BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum30/HTML/000176.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A - 101 (2nd ed.)</A> and <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum30/HTML/000177.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan B - 101 (2nd ed.)</A> and <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum30/HTML/000413.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan B - 201</A><P> <P>Jim