D-Day was offically X-Mas eve when I cam home and discovered the other woman in our sitting on our couch wearing nothing but my shirt and playing monopoly with H. Withing that wee I made up my mind of divorce and moved 5 states away back in with my mom. We have a 10 month old and I am currently 5 months pregnant.<P>Since then I have really thought about things and each day i realize how much I want this marriage to work. <P>1. He at first admited his worngs and apoligized, now he is denying the whole affair. I called OW and she confirmed EVERYHING for me. She said that it isn't relationship wise anymore but just friendship and he calls once in a blue moon for advice or help.<P>2. I admited my wrong in the marriage and my failure to do things. He is saying it is to late that nothing can be fixed and that the trust is gone and nothing will be the same. Which I told him that it can be, and if we grow from this and develop a beaitful marriage than the affair was worth it, becuase it woke me up. Of course things aren't going to be the same, but why shouyld they? why do we want it the same? Why not have better than what it was in the beggining? Trust, it is okay, it can be rebuilt, he says it is still to late.<P>3. We now live 5 states away, how can I prove that I have changed and what kind of plan is best, and how is it going to work?<P>TIA<BR>Mel