My wife has left with the OM she is looking for an apartment by herself so she can take care of the kids (9 & 10 ) when i am at work.<BR>she now watches them at our house and leaves when i come home<P>i doubt that she can afford to stay on her own but she says she will be able to make it<P>she tells me that she wants to stay my best friend but she isn't in love with me any more<P><BR>should i be supportive and help her out financially and emotionally or should i let her get a taste of real life and cut all ties?<P><BR>i love when she is around but am i making it too easy for her?<P><BR>if i cut all ties am i making it easier for the OM to meet her needs ?