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Hi,all,<P>I sent a Plan A-ish letter early recently.<P>Should I follow up with update notes re: our children and misc. info?<P>I am keeping my expectations VERY LOW. Would continuing notes deposit love units or not? <P>WAnt to maximize planting the seed of thought: want my H to think: if he doesn't play his cards right, he might stand to lose his wife, family and all else.<P>Feedback? suggestions; warnings?<P>elo<P>
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liz,<P>Of course you can follow up with more notes...<BR>...as long as they don't end up irritating your H.<P>That's a very hard line to know when you've crossed it.<P> ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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Hi Jim, <P>Thanks for your reply; you are right, and I do not want go into rough waters; want to try to stay on calm waters.<P>By notes, I meant, I think, short notes about the children and begin to address the very serious issues about our finances. <P>The Plan A-ish letter was different--I did not mean notes that re-state the message I sent in Plan A letter. That was a one time letter--to plant the seed that I am trying to make positive changes--to make it appear that I am safe to talk to and to come back to-a safe haven.<P>Hope you are doing good; keep you and your situation in my thoughts.<P>elo
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