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Jim<P>I have just re-read your link to a prevouspost on Plan B. It was a timely reminder for me. I am finding Easter a bit hard and have been very tempted to call H. I guess you find that amazing after al of this time. H seems finally to be heeding the "no contact" advice. However, I have an e-mail from him today (Good Friday). Interesting thing is thathe is in his office - as he was last w/end. The message is very matter of fact and about some joint investments - I guess I was a bit disappointed that there was not even so much as a "Happy Easter" message. Still, I cannot help but wonder what OW is doing with herself over this Easter holiday if H is in his office. Oh well, just a ramble. But wanted to thank you again for your strength and wisdom.<P>R
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Hi Rosebrook...<P>No doubt about it...<BR>Plan B is hardest in the first month or two... maybe even three.<P>Putting on the mindset that <B>this</B> is your new life...<BR>...finding joy in the things that are just yours...<BR>...growing in faith (these three days are the best)...<BR>.......don't forget "Mercy Sunday"... the week after Easter Sunday!<BR>...is what you need to fill your time with.<P>Worrying about or even thinking about what the WS is doing/thinking...<BR>...is counter-productive.<P>It is a trap of self-pity.<P>Accept the suffering... today... and tomorrow...<BR>...joining in with Christ. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>You have all my love.<P> <P>Jim
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