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Almost 1 year to the day my W began her affair and three months after our legal separation began, she has turned around. She finally sees the light. She has totally ended her A, and declared her love for me. She also has asked if I still love her after all she put me through, and she has asked to come back home to me and the kids. I'm thrilled. I went through 6 long months of LB while she continued her affair , followed by roughly 3 months of plan A, then 3 more months a a separated plan A. Never went to plan B. There is light at the end of the tunnel, hang on, keep the faith!!

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((((((David)))))))) - well done! I'm only 1 month into this, so have got a long, dark trudge through that tunnel - can't see the light at the moment, but your story fuels the hope - thankyou [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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Congragulations! We sometimes need to hear that this stuff does work. I'm curious about how things went prior/ during separation. What was your wife's attitude? How about yours? I think it's great that you didn't give up. I'll pray for your continued recovery.

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dup<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Family Man (edited May 14, 2001).]


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