Good afternoon, all,<P>I posted my Plan B letter on the Emotional Needs Board then thought I should be posting it here. Please use the link and please let me know what you think.<P>Thank you! <BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum8/HTML/004298.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum8/HTML/004298.html</A> <P><BR><P>------------------<BR><B><I>RECOVER * REFOCUS * REGENERATE ~ BREATHE * RELAX</I></B><P>By Eleanor Roosevelt ~~<BR><UL TYPE=SQUARE><BR><LI>"People grow through experience if they meet life honestly and courageously. This is how character is built." <P><LI>"No one takes advantage of you without your permission."<BR></UL>

Hi F2Bme,<P>I read your revised letter and would like to throw in my 2 cents abou the following:<P> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Free2BMe:<BR><B>Okay, here's a rewrite. My H said he will do whatever it takes to make our marriage work, but at this time I don't know if I believe him. So I'm going with that aspect - I need time to decide if this is what I want.</B> Is that the right thing to do?<P><BR><I>Dear WS,<P><BR>At this point it’s all about me! I don’t know if I can ever trust in you and recover from what has come to light in the 16 months of our marriage. I need this time apart to think and search my heart. In the mean time, please do not contact me in any way. If there is something you would like to have me know, please speak with Jack and Alice and they will pass the information to me. Please respect my wishes in this matter.<P><BR>All My Love,</I><P><BR> <P><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>In regards to the above paragraph, I would eliminate the following sentences:<P>"At this point it’s all about me! I don’t know if I can ever trust in you and recover from what has come to light in the 16 months of our marriage."<P>And eliminate this next sentence:<P>"In the mean time, please do not contact me in any way."<P>You have already made the request, you don't have to push it back in his face. He knows he needs to contact your designated supporters if he needs to speak with you. <P>I hope this has helped a bit. <P>Take Care,<BR>L. <P>