A little background...D-day Jan 15 2001 and March 20 2001.<BR>He and OW work together alone in a medical clinic in an Air Force Hospital. He is her Supervisor, very risky seeing as she can get him kicked out of the AF and thrown in prison for sexual harrassment. We have been married 12 years this June and have 2 girls ages 9 & 10. It is both an EA & PA. Started out as E & of course......Anyways, without reading about Plan A & Plan B I was basically trying plan A, the problem is that they work together and in the military it's hard to just change jobs although he could have at least tried. To make a long story short, he's has gone back to her no matter what I do or don't do. I have asked him for at least the past month the only thing I ask for is honesty. I told him if he wanted to be with her to just tell me and I'd let him go. But like most men he thought he could have his cake and eat it too. Last night was the last straw. I found some e-mails confirming my worst fears. I kicked him out. Neither one of them thought I'd ever do it, so they said in their e-mails. He even said now that it's out in the open it probably wont be any "fun". I would like to kind of try Plan A more thoroughly, even though he's out of the house. I want to just sit him down calmly and address his unfulfilled emotional needs and my willingness to try and meet those needs once he's out from under the crotch crickets spell. My question is can plan A work with him out of the house? He definitly can not come back into the house, at least not while they are working together. He is trying to cross train out of the hospital but I truely believe the only way to be free of the whore would be to move. Even then it's iffy. Oh yeah, she's married too, has 2 kids by 2 different men....Thank God he's had a vasectomy. Any thoughts are greatly appreciated!! Very Desperate here!! Thanks for listening.<BR>Town Idiot
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