Are there any members of any of the MB forums who has a WS, who wishes for reconciliation, living out of their immediate area. My H is over 1000 miles from home and is presently incarcerated. He's been down for two years and just recently confirmed my ever-growing suspicions that he was involved in an EA and PA with OW for a few years (???three, four or more???) prior to his incarceration. And, his last communication with her was about (????) six months ago. He claims that the A is way-over and that he wants to make things right between us and our children.<BR> <BR>Of course, I have many, many concerns about his current revelations and the timing of such. I'll put that to the back-burner for now. The fact that he opened up is a huge leap in the right direction. I'm not so sure that this can be worked out while he is sooooo daggone far away. BTW, the OW lives in the area where I reside. He's gone and she's still around to remind me of how pissed-off I am at the whole situation. Grrrrrr!<P>There is a lot of behind the scenes information that you may be curious about and I'll be more than happy to fill in the blanks. I'm tired of carrying the burden of shining his armour for all the time that he'd been wayward. I'm ready to spill the beans.......which ever way they may go.<P>Although I've experienced a wealth of torment with my H, nothing quite compares with having to deal with finally knowing the truth and not being able to talk at length about this with him. He is more than willing to speak with me about the A, but time restraints on the public phone that he must use and the outrageous costs of calling home collect interfers with our communications. <P>Any suggestions??????<P><P>------------------<BR><B>Time heals all wounds as long as you DON'T pick at them!</B>