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4 month's since d-day. I am BS of 9 years. WS is sex addict, spend-aholic and<BR> habitual liar. All has been very very good for last 2 months.<P> I just got a phone record that shows who she has been calling from our home. She<BR> called OP the day before her birthday. She also called him on 5/18/01. He was her<BR> #1 OP. The A lasted 3 years +/-. He is an older man whom she worked for. She is a<BR> sex abuse victum.<P> I am calling Counselor, Pastor, and Lawyers. D is very emminent. I don't understand<BR> why she broke the no contact rule.
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W has never shown much remorse. Everything is fake.<P>I am amazingly calm. That is the truly saddest part. I am in contact with my Pastor and 2 counselors. Once I get my separation papers straightened out, my #1 counselor and my W will sit down. We will have to confront her with the truth. The rest is up to her. I may seek her again or I may divorce her. We will be legally separated. Call it Plan B. I will not support her destroying herself, my children or me. This is done in love. God help me. My decision is not rash. Please read my role call on the "Just found out... " board.<P>Any advice you can give me about separation/divorce is appreciated.
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