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#458927 06/19/01 11:33 AM
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I am plan Bing. Husband had an affair and moved out. Is snail mail a good or bad thing during this time?

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Any form of mail is good...<P>...keep on working on yourself during your Plan B!<P>Practice Plan A-ing... with <B>everyone</B> else!<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jim

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Don't let him forget about you having in mind that he is probably with OW and would like to forget about you now (you have to make him feel guilty , cause that’s the only way he can understand what he is doing) so go back to plan A occasionally ( the best way to get him feel bad of what he is doing). Stay in touch no matter how hard it is. But don't push him too much to often. If he moved recently allow him some time without your presence and when you contact him after that make it more official (like you have something to sort out) just try not to scare him on first contact and try plan A.


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