whoever can help,<BR> I am really new to this new lifestyle, and not sure what to do next. A brief history, August 1 would be 9 years of marriage for WS and I, I thought we had a perfect marriage apparently her EN's were not being met. She found someone who "loves" her 5 states away thanks to a "friend". She has now decided that she needs her space to figure out what she wants, she has left our 3 kids moving to OM's town to get a job. She says its not about him and realizes it would be a mistake to leave us. #1 she thinks she is pregnant with OM's child. I have opened every door for reconciliation. Am I acting desperate, pushing her away? probably at first. Do I go to plan B or do I hold out a little longer? Do I get temp legal custody? Or will that push her away? I guess only the Lord knows. How does a guy function running a business, spending time with the kids, doing all the chores around the house? I feel WS has taken out both Mom and Dad from our kids, I don't know who is in the most pain here, but we need a miracle. Please pray for us.<BR>