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Does Plan A actually ever work?
#459244 07/28/01 11:16 PM
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Not to say it doesn't. I'm just starting it myself. My situation is very typical so I won't bore you with it.<P>I just would like to know if it works. I know if I do it right *I* will be a better person, but how often does it work in getting the spouse into counseling or some other sort of marriage builder? <P>How often do things work out so that Plan A is enough? Or do you almost always end up in Plan B?<P>
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I will give you a few cases where it did work.<P>Do a search on these usernames: [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Lostva<BR>peppermint<BR>soulloss<BR>heartpain<BR>faithhoplove<BR>alias or POGP <P><BR>just to name a few!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P><BR><p>[This message has been edited by Patient Love (edited July 31, 2001).]
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sad,<P>Yeah, it does work, believe it or not. I had my doubts when I first read it and tried it, but done correctly, I can and does work. It IS NOT easy, I won't lie but be tough and keep a stiff upper lip. <P>Good Luck<P>------------------<BR>...Keeping a stiff upper lip. Life begins on the other side of despair.<BR>-Scarlet Pumpernickle<BR>s_pumpernickle@yahoo.com
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sad_but_true:<P>Plan A does work, but there are plenty of times where you end up in Plan B. <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum30/HTML/000857.html" TARGET=_blank>I covered this</A> with Mike a while ago.
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Worked for me but eeew I hated it sometimes. I also LB sometimes I wasnt perfect. H came out of fog. Better now, but still working hard ,BOTH OF US.<BR>L.

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