I notice in SAA, the Plan B letter was copied to the OP. In my situation, I do not think my H will show it to OW, so do I send it to her? How do you decide?<P>Also, here's the link to my letter. Any other suggestions? <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/011353.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/011353.html</A>