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IF WH MOVES OUT DO I GO TO PLAN B ?
#459497 08/31/01 02:56 AM
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I HAVE A QUESTION. IF WH MOVES OUT DO I GO TO PLAN B ?<P>IT HAS BEEN 2 MONTHS SINCE D DAY. MY H HAS TOLD ME FOR A YEAR NOW HE IS LEAVING. BUT AS OF TODAY HE IS STILL HERE. I AM CONFUSED. ONE DAY I WANT HIM TO LEAVE THE NEXT I DON'T.
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Plan A... for as long as you can.<P>Even Plan A... after her leaves!<P>In general shoot for about a six month time frame for Plan A.<P>Then...<BR>...when you can accept the inevitability of a permanent separation...<BR>...then start thinking about Plan B.<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jim
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still love him,<P>I think I'm at you situation right now. My wife moved out because of various reasons (I Love Busted majorly, and she was contacting the OP).<P>She's moved out. For awhile she was living with some friends, but she couldn't deal with that so I found her a place to live my my relative's house. I thought it would be nicer that way so I can see her more often.<P>She's still in contact with the OP. So now I'm having the same question as you. Plan A or Plan B? I believe I think that I know how you feel. It's a tough decision.<P>I'm leaning towards Plan B because I'm getting tired of things. If he decides to leave, then maybe Plan B would be a good idea. Although, the decision is hard.

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