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I have read as much as I can find on this site and have been getting some great advise from these message boards. But I havent figured out how I manage to get my H out of my house with out having him put out which is going to make things worse, I dont see that ever leading to them getting better. My situation isnt adultery and my H was living else where for 3 months. When he got ready, he came home, with out my ok. What do I do now?
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Why can't you continue to Plan A?<P>How long have you done a Plan A?<P> ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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Sorry I guess I wasnt clear. I May my H attacked me, he willing left the next day. He came home a few weeks ago before i was ready and had agreed to it. Now I am walking on egg shells, living in fear. Nobody thinks plan A is an option but i dont know how to get him to leave.
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Abuse (physical or other) is unacceptable.<P>You cannot Plan A... if you are being "attacked".<P>Request immediate counseling (with your H).<P>If he won't go...<BR>...make plans to leave... yourself.<P>Go to a womans shelter... if there is no other alternative.<BR>If you have family, or friends... good friends... seek them out! Yes... you can tell them <B>why</B> you need to leave! You have nothing to be ashamed of!!!<P>Protection of life and limb allows for this.<P>You have my prayers...<P> ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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