May I ask some suggestions regarding Plan B logistics?<P>How do you Plan B, with 2 kids ( 2.5 and 11 )when the WS cannot work? She also doesn't want a divorce till WS gets a Green Card ( 12-24 mos from now ).<P>Do I leave so it will be easy on the kids and me? Should I stay local and get two cramped apts or do I move out of state to stay with family and leave the kids with WS? If I stay local I hate the fact that when I visit I will be giving WS and OM time for their undivided attention which my WS and I never had, yet I don't want the kids to feel abandoned.<P>If I boot WS out, WS can only go to OM or to family 2 hours away. I will have to look for a daycare for the younger one and pay for something I may not be able to afford.<P>Any advice is appreciated .. thanks in advance. =)<BR>