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.<p>[ December 20, 2001: Message edited by: Getting very tired ]</p>
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Gtv, I saw your post on GQII. I know how you feel, this is a drop zone of 'coaster ride, after lift high from the WW's contact. The hardest part of plan A is no expectation & letting it go. <p>IMVHO, you should wait and try to ride this 'coaster a bit longer. I know you start to resent WW but that is normal and we are all do occationally. However do you want to gamble your M on this ?. The fact that WW just try to reach you for whatever reason you should be there for her. If you slamm the door now and you have guessed it wrong about financial issues. She might never contact you again. If you slamm the door now and you have guess it right about the financial issues. OM drops her and she might not go back to you since you slamm the door and have not give it enough time for her to feel "safe" to come home.<p>I have do not have any experience with plan B but one thing I know that you have to make sure WS feels it is "safe" to come back before you go to plan B.<p>Let her know she is invited but if she is not coming you understand due to the current situation. Just be there for her now and listen to her.<p>[ December 11, 2001: Message edited by: redhat ]</p>
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