How are you, Chris? Been a rough month, maybe the roughest yet, huh?<P>I finally finished decorating the tree late Christmas morning.... We have an active kitten that can't stay in the closet forever, so it is half undecorated again!<P>Did you decide to take an early retirement? How are the girls? <P>I just know this month has been a hellish ride for you. I hope soon the rollercoaster ride takes a break.<P>God Bless<BR>TNT

I'm with tnt, Chris, hoping you are doing okay and that the rollercoaster feels as if it has levelled out for you. This Christmas was worse for me than last Christmas, but I managed to get through it.<P>Now for the New Year's Eve thing... I might be throwing an online party here at MB at the rate my social life is going... What are you doing for New Year's, Chris?<P>{{{{{{{{{{Chris}}}}}}}}}}<P>------------------<BR>terri<BR>I believe in miracles...<P>

Hey Chris, where'd ya go? You okay?<P>And has anyone heard from Samantha or Sheba?<P>Hoping everyone is okay.<BR>

Hi all!<P>Been at my Mom’s house off & on the last few weeks. The kids have been staying up there. My youngest stayed at a friends house in CS & I came down today to pick her up.<P>The girls are doing okay. Working at DQ & playing with cousins.<P>The Wife has called about a bazillion times & we haven’t been home. <BR>Bwaaaa haaaaa haaaaa haaaaa! She hasn’t spoke with the oldest since late last month. She didn’t get to talk to my youngest on her bday either. Bummer. NOT!<P>I’d like to say she sounds depressed more & more everytime she leaves a message, but it’s just wishful thinking. I think if I just changed my phone #, it’d smack her upside the head really good. Not something I’m gonna do, but I can dream.<P>Last night me & my brother went out country dancing. Okay, I’m not a big fan of country, but I can listen to it. Beer helps. Besides, it was ladies night! Woo hoo! I just love women. No, I didn’t get laid & no, I wasn’t looking to get laid. Just looking. I did dance a bit & there was this woman... Looks like Buffy but 10 years older. Danced a few times with her but I was pretty lit so I don’t even remember her name. Yes I am gonna go back sometime & look for her. Dangerous grounds I know, but I am still married etc.. Anyway, I was walking around talking with EVERYONE! Very drunk. My brother had to grab me by the shoulders & push me out the door. Had a real good time.<P>I’m having a New Years Eve party at my house. Didn’t hear of much else going on so I decided to have one. Besides I don’t have to go anywhere & worry about drunk drivers etc. If any one is near Colorado Springs you’re all invited!<P>Sheba posted a few days ago I believe. Said she’s doing okay. Don’t know about Samantha. I’ll be back tomorrow.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Yes I am gonna go back sometime & look for her. Dangerous grounds I know, but I am still married etc...<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>You'll have to go through ME to get to that bar again... Not the place for you.<P> <P>Happy New Year!!!<p>[This message has been edited by K (edited December 30, 1999).]

You edited your post pretty darn quick k!<P>I was gonna write, “Hello k? Is that you writing this?“ I expected to see what you changed it to, NOT what you originally put. LOL<P>Have to go through you? C’mon, let’s go together. Again, LOL! I don’t think she’s a regular so she probably won’t ever be there anyway.<P>Happy New Year all!<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A><p>[This message has been edited by Chris (CA123) (edited December 30, 1999).]

I wrote it, knew what I meant, and then when I saw it there... well, it could have been misinterpreted... <P>Do take care of yourself, and have a great New Year's celebration!!

Yeah, it was misinterpreted. I thought you were telling me, “GO FOR IT DUDE!” Definitely not the K I know.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>

Damn straight... I'd never tell you that!!!<P>Hey, she didn't have a sister by any chance, did she...

Hi there folks!!!!<P>I'm around TNT....thanks for asking!!<BR>Samantha was going away for the holiday - not sure when she is due back!!!!<P>Hey Terri - I caught ALL the germs the kids had over XMas - so my plans are by the wayside for tonight!!! Can I come to your MB party? That is if our online's stay OK!!!!!<P>Chris and K - being baaaaaad boys, are we? Shame..shame!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!<P>HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!<P>HUGS,<P>Sheba

Still dunno what I'm doing tonight. I had kind of a backhanded invite from my sil to a house party she's going to - right in back of my house, actually. I'm thinking of going there, since I kinda know some of the people who will be there.<P>So there might not be an online MB party ... at least not started by me, sorry!<P>Chris, ditto what K said. No Buffy look-a-like for you!!!<P>------------------<BR>terri<BR>I believe in miracles...<P><BR>

chris and the gang,<P>Hi, I've also been laying low too. Just reading, just haven't had the heart to reply too much, I am in total confusion.<P>Chris, glad to hear you are having some fun, I need some of that. If only I did drink. I hear you Terri, I don't have much of a social life either. (lots of married friends, which I have a hard time hanging with during holidays). No, K, I would not even be dancing or flirting I just want some social contact with women.<P>I had my first session with Steve H. this past week (prvsly had 3 with Dr Chalmers). It went well, he asked me to see if my wife would talk to him, for information gathering about me. Wife seemed open to idea. I guess DR H uses info to help devise a plan on what to do now. After my hybrid plan B, I was not able to stay out of conversing with my W. Steve H. thinks there is still hope, but.... he thinks the affair is not really out in the open yet (no discovery ?!) My W is keeping her affair like top secret from everyone. So yuck, he said she may not come out of her fog until another 3-6 months. Just when I thought, maybe she was thinking normal a little bit, though I know she is still overnighting at OM place when daughter is not there. Happy New year to all, hopefully this website is Y2K ready !!

I’m back. Just finished cleaning the house for the party tonight.<P>tnt, doesn’t look like retirement for me. Think I have managed to finagle my way out of the assignment to Thule.<P>Ya‘ know, when I was at the bar, I went around and talked to EVERY girl in the place. Musta been at least 100 I talked to. Just, “Hi, what’s your name, I’m Chris, thanks for stopping by, etc.” On the way out (my bro had to push me out the door) he said I went to talk to this girl on the stairs and her boyfriend kept moving in front of me. I don’t remember that part. LOL.<P>C’,mon guys, what ya’ mean no Buffy look alike? She probably lives 75 miles away! Besides, I ain’t lookin’ for sex & I wouldn’t do it if the opportunity presented itself. I am a gentleman of honor.<P>Perhaps I’ll pop ‘round the forum tonight.<P>Happy New Years to you all!<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>

Chris - glad you don't have to move to tin buck 2....!!!! Sounds like you are finding "clever" ways to keep yourself occupied lately!!! I trust you, and you deserve to be noticed and have some fun.<P>I bet your party is great. <P>Sheba, thanks for updating us. I was starting to get worried about all of you.... Nice for me to worry about all of you for a change, huh? YES!<P>Chris - did you get that tree up and leave it as a decoration for your party? Mine comes down Sunday.... And the cat can come out of the closet!<P>tnt

Still waiting to find out if the assignment is cancelled, but it looks pretty good.<P>No, I never got the tree out. I did hang some red yarn to put the cards on though. Spent much of the time up in Denver.<P>Only a few people showed up for the party. Mom & bro & a few others. All right by me though.<P>Yes, I am gonna go back and find her. I won’t get as loaded though.<P>Make sure your cat has some water. LOL<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>

Hey Chris,<P>I just read in the Enquirer that Buffy was seen in CO talking to a strange man in a bar rubbing up against him. Was that you? The strange man?<P>It looks like you are getting ready to cross into dangerous territory. I have been seeing an XGF but Mr. Winky has stayed home for the dates. I don't need any more poop going on in my life now.<P>I'm with K on this one. Does she have two sisters? Nudge, nudge, know what I mean?<P><P>------------------<BR>"It's not over till we say it's over! Was it over when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? H*ll no!" Blutto...Animal House 1984<P>Wishing us all the Best.<P>Medic<P>

Uh, Mr Winky doesn’t quite work these days. I guess it’s probably like falling off a bike though. Once you learn how you never forget.<P>I NEED FEMALE COMPANIONSHIP! I’m not gonna act too single. Yeah, it’s dangerous territory & I know I’m usually the first to jump on and say, “DON’T DO IT!” but I’m dying here guys. Mr Giver is pretty close to all given out I think.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>

Do I sound like an a$$ or what?

Chris,<BR>I don't think so. You have been giving for so long, it is no wonder that your Giver is worn out.<P>Sometimes I wonder if they feel too guilty to come home, and would they feel less guilty if the spouse were unfaithful too.

Chris,<P>You are DEFINETLY not an @sshole!!!!<P>You are human and have stayed a mighty straight course here. You are tired and want some attention in return. You DESERVE some, too.<P>Just be careful what you wish for, 'cause you just might get it. You can have fun without hopping in the sack....OH, but you gotta be ever so careful here. Remember, none of our S's probably thought they were gonna "do" anything, either.<P>Bring some chaperones along - SEVERAL - in case they need to tied youdown to put the straight jacket on!!!! LOL!!!<P>Desiree<BR><P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>