Mylife,<p>Your letter is beautiful. However, I can see one thing that may not be clear to your H.<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>
I love you with all my heart, but it is breaking everyday because of your decision to maintain an intimate relationship with another woman before making an honest attempt at restoring our marriage coupled with your decision to continue that relationship while we are bound together in marriage both legally and spiritually. <p>If in the future, you have a change of heart, and you are willing to completely and permanently end your relationship with OW, I will be ready and willing to discuss our future together. <hr></blockquote><p>I don't think your H will understand that there must be absolutely no personal contact between the two of you until he gives up the OW. So, at the end of the first paragraph above, I would add this:
"Therefore, to protect myself from the pain of your affair and to preserve my love for you, I ask that you abide by my wishes for no further contact between the two of us until you are willing to end your relationship with (the OW)."<p>Oh, on second thought. I think that the second paragraph could be a tad more positive. I think I would change it to:<p>
"When you are willing to completely and permanently end your relationship with OW, I will be ready and willing to discuss our future together."<p>But, overall, it is a beautiful and loving letter.<p>{{{{{{{{{{Mylife}}}}}}}}}}<p>[ January 05, 2002: Message edited by: Lady Clueless ]</p>
