Sounds exactly like what my wife is doing. She is looking for something (I say THING and not ONE) to make her happy. We started our relationship off as a Christian couple. I have recently got back into God and rededicated my life. She made a comment last to me like "you are one of those BORN AGAIN". This is her typical way of thinking in the midst of an affair. She knows it is wrong, but her vision and heart is so cloudy it is hard to see the light.<p>I have put up with 3 affairs in the last 6 years and an ongoing "he is my soulmate" from her old boss for about 10 years. That blew up last year sometime. <p>I am like, you, I am ready to move on. I am not trying to pat mysefl on the back here, but I am unique in the fact that I stuck around through all this crap. I did it back then for the children, now that our 3 are older, I can't hide it from them anymore. So, I am hanging tight and being there for them. I realized that I can't control her actions, if she wants this OM, then so be it, but I know 100% in my heart that it won't last. She is looking for someone to put her on a pedalstel and worship her. It won't happen.<p>I similarities in your post and what I am going through, except, I am not pregnant, neither is my wife. <p>Just like you, if my wife came back, I would take her back......with conditions of course, but, then again I think........why would I want too?. I don't know, right now, I just have to worry about myself and our kids.<p>Def!<p>[ January 07, 2002: Message edited by: defcon888 ]</p>
