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Me:45, 20 years M<p>What is Plan B?
I'm at the Plan B stage, and she is running an affair for a few years. I've been trying Plan A ( about the last year ), but evidence of the affair comes up every three months or so and kicks me in the teeth. It is very hard to improve myself/our M when I'm spiralling in depression. I only found this place last month, so some of A is guesswork and probably screwed up. I of course made the threats when I found out and got the usual promises. I'm now asking about B - does this mean I move out? Sleep in another room? We can't afford another place. Obviously no physical contact means no sex, but does it mean no kissing/hugging? Do I tell her that we will resume after she has broken all contact off?
I 'll point out again the idea that the affair is like a drug addiction and she needs to take time
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What is Plan B?<p>Check this link <a href="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum30/HTML/000177.html" target="_blank">plan b 101 revised 2nd edition </a><p>Basically give both of you the taste of Dv.
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<p>[ January 20, 2002: Message edited by: Bunny ]</p>
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