Ok ,,, so I havent been here in a looooong time... actually we have filed and are in the process of a divorce. Hubby moved out around thanksgiving and we are all adjusting to our new life... Funny thing he said the other day (well actually he emailed, we dont talk much) seems that he thinks he has been plan Bing me???/ wait a minute I was the BS and isnt that what I was supposed to do to him? and never mind that ,,, why when he had the chance to plan A he couldnt figure out what it took... ??? yes we went to the semiar last year and we tried really hard but after many years of struggling... the amount of lies which had been told.. left me with very little trust in him and the relationship... which is why we seperated and filed... now mind you I have no hurt feelings now days (could be from the help of prozac) but in all seriousness I just want to move on and get going with my new life and he seems to be struggling with communications and thinks that by not talking to me it will hurt me,,, he thinks that he is doing a plan B LOL... what a joke... only reminds me of why we are divorcing in the first place.. MIND GAMES... well you cant play mind games when someone doesnt care... hope he reads this...
have a nice day plan B... but dont forget you are more than likely doing me a favor by not communicating with me... it is only sad that the kids dont hear from you either... [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]
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Concerned1,
Not to mention that you could have ask to modifiy child custody/support when he does that. Hope your journey and seek for happiness in live will be smooth & fullfilling. Could it be also that he shut it down since he is hurting ?.

yes I do think he is shutting down the world since he is an internet addict and has been since the internet began... on average he spends 6+ hrs a day and completely shuts everyone down and lives in this fantasy land... a big issue which was never resolved since he refused counceling or admiting that it was a problem. I will not have to revisit the visitation/support issue since I make more money than him and basically have no need for his,,, what i would like is for him to be involved with his kids but then again after struggling with all the issues we had for the last 7 years I guess it is not going to be any different now. thanks for the response and I do hope that it gets better with time.