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#460742 01/22/02 12:25 PM
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Last night my WH (in withdrawal 2 mos now) sat me down and asked what was wrong. He could tell something was wrong. He wanted to know why we don't talk about us except in the councelor's office. I attempted to explain that I have good days and bad days and I was just a little down. <p>He said he was very worried about me. During our discussion he said he didn't think things were getting any better between us, he doesn't know if it fair to stay with me for the wrong reason (at first it was for our daughter, now it is because I didn't leave him and that I love hm unconditionally and there have been others in between). Then he said he was afraid I would give up on him before he came out of this! (not sure if he meant fog or MLC) I of course said I will be there. <p>I took this opportunity to once again bring up the four rules of marriage - honesty, care, protection, time. In the past when I mentioned these he would say dismiss them and say he couldn't get OW out of his head. This time he said we need to do something.<p>So here's my question. My WH isn't much on reading (listened to HNHN on tape). Is there a way I can download the clips from the Marriage Talk Radio section? If I could burn the 4 insurance policies on a cd WH could listen with me or in auto. Is this possible?<p>If not, any suggestions for our next step are welcome. Any suggestions are always welcome.<p>Thanks.

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Twinkles,
I'm glad you are still hanging in there. Im also glad your husband at least cares that you are hanging in there. I hope my wife still does in 2 months (she seems discouraged after 1 week) <p>Back to the technical matter:
First off I dont know if there are any copyright laws or whatever that may violate but hey. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Well the cheap way would be use a cassette tape and record it. (if your car still has a tape deck)

To capture streaming audio you need an application to do it. here is an article about doing that which mentions software which is ok.
http://www.techtv.com/audiofile/musictech/story/0,23008,3006415,00.html<p>The other thing I was thinking would be YOU could read it and record it. If you have a microphone you can make a wav file of you reading it. That way it can be informative AND personal (your voice). How to save a wav file? Do you have a PC or a mac? for a windows machine there is usually a simple program for recording try Accessories-Multimedia-Sound (no promises on quality) [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
from there you can use whatever cd burning software you have to burn it to CD. <p>G'luck!<p>I'm not only a BS I'm also technical support [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]

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HangingIn - <p>Thanks for the great suggestions! <p>As far as this rocky road we have started to walk down - I get sooooooo discouraged sometimes. That's when I come here for a "kick in the pants". The encouragement I have received here has helped me tremendously. <p>So far, most important for me - slow down, breathe, patience, and be the best I can be for ME. Easy to say, not always easy to do. But I will keep trying.<p>That's all we can do...

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No problem.<p>Giveing out advice is better than sitting here feeling sorry for myself, which is why I think a lot of us do it.<p>Anyhow if you havent read this post:
it isnt quite the same situation as my situation.. or yours I think, but it is encouraging.
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=37&t=014880


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