I was reading what you had replied to VE about motives for Plan A...well I really searched myself and my motives are pure. But how do you KNOW that you are doing a GOOD Plan A? Especially when just loving them feels like a LB? I just get so scared sometimes. Like when I hug him, snuggle in bed, tell him I love him (he says it back sparatically),etc...It feels like a LB. Right now my mind is not on this, I don't think that the Dept. of Trans. does not work this late, so I am thinking the OW's house. SO I am not all here but I wanted to ask you that.