Need advice-<p>How far do I "push" WH to fill out EN & LB questionaires? He had 1 session with Steve. Now he is saying that I want this perfect M, and doesn't know about MC.<p>Steve asked him to set another apmt & fill out forms. I gave him website info & fax # this weekend. <p>What can I do now? wait? ask again?<p>Thanks for all your help

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink. Unfortunately I am in the same boat as you are. Just be patient and give it time. If you push too much you will make some LB withdraws...

Confuse-Guy,<p>Thanks for the reply. One of the hardest things I find to do is to wait. That must be a virtue then!<p>Sorry that you are in the same position. I'll have to search some of your posts for your story. Eeks - I just thought of my emotions on pulling up my posts even though it's only been a short while.<p>My WH left almost 3 years ago under false pretenses, but Dday was in Oct 01. The whole time he was away, I worked on myself, did whatever I could to learn about healthy relationships. I know it has paid off but that's why the waiting is so frustrating. I am ready for a R, & he's not. He says I want a perfect M. (just about anything would be preferable to R now)<p>Have you seen the book "The power of a praying husband" by stormie Omaian (something like that)
There is a version for wives & the first day I began to read & pray the suggested prayer, I noticed a difference. <p>God Bless