Hello,<p>During my IC session with Steve today, we talked about my confrontation with WH this weekend. He said it wasn't a good sign that there was a lack of consideration for me and no remorse when WH talked about OW1 &OW2. (I was amazed that he even told me!) After thing about it , Steve is right.<p>So, I'm headed for plan B. It's complicated, we own and operate a business together (he works out of state & I do the administrative stuff.) It's a two person business. There are lots of things to think through. I meet with an attorney tomorow just so I know where I stand. I'm also talking to a realtor, cuz there is no way I could keep this house on my own.<p>Today, I went through what I had to do, calmly & serenly. Now this evening, the full impact of this is hitting me, It's scary & it's hurtful.MYs tomach is in knots again. WH says I'm loosing it. Yeah I sure am, Iv'e lost my sense of security, I've lost the H I once knew & loved, I lost him as a father. That's what I call losing it.<p>This weekend, I'm going to visit our oldest son to tell him what is going on because the following week he is going up to see his dad.<p>Any workd of wisdom, or things that I need to consider. Any support is welcome.<p>Thank God for these boards<p> [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]

WillGetThruThis,<p>I don't have any opinion for plan B, you are already in a good hand (SH). I am probably in denial about plan B and not ready for it and try to block this subject out of my mind.<p>The only point that I could make is that you tell your son after you plan B'ng, not this weekend, unless you are doing it prior to this weekend. By telling him you could put burden on him.<p>One request from me, could you be kind enough to post your plan B letter ?. It will help others including myself when I have to do it.<p>Do not be afraid, God Bless you.

Redhat,<p>I'm not going to plan b right now, I'm gathering information. I am in the process of writing the letter & will post it for comments when ready.<p>It is a scary thing. One minute I'm ready the next minute I'm not.<p>I saw an attorney today not for a DV but for information. I know the man, he has handled other matters in my old business but this is what he said to me: "Why would you ever stay with someone who did that to you? How could you ever trust him again?" By the end of our conversation, he said - "I can tell you are not ready for divorce" and I'm not. <p>I have to work out details that have to do with our business, and right now I don't know how to make that work in plan B. <p>God Bless [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]