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What is Plan A/B??
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Hi, I'm new unfortunately (I found out on Monday that my W having an affair d-day 12/27/01)<p>I have talked to her and she seems to be very remoursefull about the entire affair. However, she seemed loving at times during the past three months. Should I believe her talk/feelings now, and please explain what the plan A & B is and how long it generally takes.<p>Thanks
Re: What is Plan A/B??
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Snoop,<p>Follow the link on General Welcome on my signature you will find plan A/B. Also read other link as much as you can.<p>For your situation, plan A/B doesn't apply. We do plan A/B to end the A. Now the A is ended ... you have to follow on how to end A properly & recover your M. Read SAA and read also in Q&A on infidelity. You have to learn about EN, LB, LB$, POJA. You have to work on 4 rules of recovery. Care (ENs), protect (no LB), time and honesty.<p>Get conseling from MB if you are not comfortable doing it yourself.
Re: What is Plan A/B??
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Thank you Redhat, I downloaded much of the attached info. I will continue to research as much as possible to make this work.

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