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My wife came home and she doesn't know if she even wants to try counseling now. She is flip flopping on everything, is this normal? She still plans on moving out and staying with a friend of ours (female, likes me alot). However, if you were to ask her on a scale of 1 to 10 if she wanted to save our marriage with a 10 being absolutely, she would say that she is at a 2 or a 3. Any suggestions?

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Dale,<P>If you want any chance at all...(the Harley way)... you've got to throw yourself full heartedly into Plan A!<P>Do you have the book <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6070_sa.html" TARGET=_blank>"Surviving An Affair"</A> yet?<P>Check out my tonights post...<A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum1/HTML/011323.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A - 101</A>... It'll give you something to think about!<P>Jim

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hi dale, while she may be flopping on the counseling, it may not mean she is giving up on the marriage. I know there are a lot of people here that truly believe in counseling. I just happened to find a couple bad ones that pushed divorce. So don't push too hard, demand something that she cannot deal with. Plan a, policy of joint agreement, love, patience.


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